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The following is a BRIEF recollection of events over the last 18 months. This is not everything, that would be a phone book thick, but it gets most of the points covered. The abuse was ruthless and vindictive.

 

April – May 2023

 

The initial relationship. Just casual. Everything was fairly normal but then red flags are popping up left and right.

I'm ignoring them. I am focused on assisting her with the construction of her house which is incomplete. I start driving 6 hour round trips out to Junction, Texas to help her.

 

She out of the blue tells me she is pregnant. She refuses to take a pregnancy test for me for over a month for some reason.

 

While she is avoiding taking a pregnancy test during that month, she begins telling these ridiculous stories about myself that have never happened. She begins just fabricating thousand word novels about a fictional life regarding my actions and intentions. She is telling me these delusional stories about myself about once a week.

 

She has 4 children already and does not have custody of a single one

 

I resigned from the Peace Corps to raise the child.

 

June-July 2023

 

After finally taking a pregnancy test to verify, I devoted all my time and energy into her and the baby.

 

Anna-Marie begins making these incredibly mean demands and ultimatums.

 

She begins threatening to kill me, or harm our baby if I don't comply to unreasonable demands she is trying o manipulate me with. This starts off once a week-ish.

 

Begins contacting every female in phone. Friends, family, coworkers, etc.

 

Begins weekly calling me a cheater and accusing me of infidelity.

 

Begins Daily berating me, insulting me, putting me down, and making threats of all kinds.

 

I notice what she does for money is scam people for a living. Calls and blackmails multiple people to coerce money.

 

I never wanted kids before this. But when a few weeks into the first pregnancy had gone by I had fallen in love with the idea I would be dad. It literally gave me hope again for the future that things would actually turn out OK. She used the baby as weapon to make me do anything she wanted. She threatened me using that baby anyway you could imagine. She held that child over my head like a leash around my throat... I don't have any capacity for hate, I stupidly tell myself that she will stop with the abusive behavior. Every time i called it quits permanently though, she would go off on these horrible and brutally ruthless smear campaigns and I would be forced to contact her, while she gathers manipulated evidence for her case to try and show the court.

 

August-October 2023

 

Death threats become multiple times a week

 

She is either trying to control every movement I make, or tell me to die.

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hreatens to kill our child almost everyday by now

 

Has contacted Every single Female in my phone at this point and sent dozens and dozens if not hundreds of messages to every single female I know down to my mother even.

 

I Was not allowed to work or leave her side or she would say I was cheating.

 

Dad was diagnosed with cancer and was far along, so she would not let go home to help my parents.

 

Anytime I was not able to follow through with her demands, she would punish me.

 

She accused me of infidelity almost every day at this point.

 

The nonstop berating, insults, threats and abusive demands get so bad I fall into a very deep depression. I have to check into a hospital for a couple days during October.

 

She is telling everyone she knows long insane rantings and stories about me, that she is making up and fabricating on a daily basis.

 

The dozens of detailed threats take back most females I know- they quit talking to me.

 

Many of her male friends have also distanced themselves due to the detailed lies she is sending them.

 

Her verbal abuse finally gets me to break up. So she gets a person to follow me around and spy on me.

***Her spy informs her of an event/festival I was attending with a couple of friends (one of them female), she breaks into my house, does $10000+ in damages before leaving every door open in my house for my female roommate to wake up too. She comes to the event, hits me in the head with a brick in front of 40 people before storming off screaming she is going to kill my friend. I get home to find my roommate terrified and 3 Sheriff deputies and a trashed living area. ***

And so starts the physical abuse.

 

***October she out of the blue decide she wants a $7000 Rot Wieler. She decides she wants me to pay for it, I refuse, so she takes out a title loan on her car to pay for the dog*** This is important later.

 

November-December 2023

 

Every single form of manipulation is being used at this point Every single day.

 

Multiple times a day now she is accusing me of cheating, she wont let me even use my own phone.

 

She is threatening to kill me so many times a day, She begins keeping my stuff and threatening to kill me if I tired to ask for it back.

 

I have drained 10’s of 1000’s of dollars on her constant demands. The gas, supplies, groceries, and straight up cash she was demanding daily. (while at the same time not letting me work) I burned through credit cards like crazy.

 

The only way she speaks to me by this point is through hurtful mean and abusive rhetoric and demands. She is so verbally, mentally, emotionally and physically abusive, I am completely and utterly mentally broken and mentally drained at this point.

 

The stress is making it difficult to function.

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** On Thanksgiving the abuse was too much for me to handle, baby or no baby, so I broke up with her. (again) SHE KILLED OUR BABY. She was in her last trimester. She detailed her forced miscarriage in a night of hell and revenge against me.***

 

***She spends a couple days setting up for the most heinous lie anyone could use to manipulate someone. She gets her sister in on it and sets up detailed props and fake paperwork to convince me she didn't kill the baby, the baby was born and was in the NICU UNIT, but s she would only let me see the baby if I proved myself to her. ****

 

The backbreaking manual slave labor became even more intense. Her demands for money got even more frequent.

 

*** She one day in late Nov. goes through my phone and finds that I was chatting with a female acquaintance. She brutally attacks me. She bites me me so hard I have scars still from where she tried to bites chunks out of my skin. She bit my face and chest and kicked me in the groin so hard I was vomiting from the pain. She starts telling me she is going to shoot me while i crawled out of the house in pain. The sheriff showed up and arrested her. I finally decided enough was enough (again) baby or no baby, it was over. So I got the FIRST protective order on her. ***

 

***I was forced to contact the county attorney, and alter the PO so we could remain in contact. I was still convinced by the detailed manipulative lie she made up about our child still being alive. The month of December was her torturing me X1000 for revenge for “getting her arrested.”

 

She forces me to write letters of non-prosecution and do everything can to help get her charges dropped.***

 

She begins walking up and “accidentally putting her cigarettes out on my arm.

 

Keep in mind this is happening while, at all times, I am being berated and yelled at.

 

She is still spreading lies about me to everyone, and has really amped up those efforts;

 

I am being put to work with slave labor, my savings is sucked dry, and am just being blackmailed and exploited like crazy to meet a baby that didn’t exist.

 

I am getting sick from the stress significantly now.

 

January- February 2024

 

The lie about our baby being alive and in a NICU unit was so well thought and detailed, it was end of January till I was able to get her come clean. My entire family believed it. I had an entire nursery and everything set up for the baby.

 

January 10th she gets mad at me for not completing something so she goes really violent that night and tries to kill me (in front of her twin 10 year old daughters) Literally breaks a piece of wood off over my head after hitting me with it a few dozen times, then she stabs me in the shoulder with broken point while trying to get me in the neck.

 

gets arrested on January 14th a second time.

 

All day every day accusing me of cheating. Anytime I leave for more than 5 minutes she accuses me of infidelity.

 

She begins blasting my picture, name, information etc. across the entire Internet. FB groups like “are we dating the same guy” along with a dozen others. She is spreading foul lies about me such as that I’m a predator and relentless cheater and liar.

 

She is still spreading lies about me to her circle and contacting any female she finds in my phone.

 

She is threatening my female friends so much and now started harassing and stalking a few directly from her own number(originally messaging the people she was isolating me from, from my own phone and number).

 

She starts signing my friend sunshine up for spam calls and emails on her work lines, threatens to have have her raped, kidnapped, and sold in Mexico to donkey show, threatens to make her friend Billy make her disappear.

 

She is making brutal and ruthless demands from me and running me ragged and mentally exhausted.

 

She is blackmailing me to do things for her threatening to smear campaign false information.(sh has essentially isolated me completely at this point already from most of my family and friends)

 

Everyday threats to myself to kill me

 

she ends up getting pregnant again.

 

She sells her house in Junction and gets evicted from her place in Travis county. I help her move and I end up forced to store the majority of her stuff in the middle of my house along with her cats.

 

She begins blasting me on her personal FB page, hundreds of posts about how big of a terrible cheater and liar I am and how horrible I am to her multiple times a day.

 

I’m not sure how many of her pregnancies were even real. She had a fake pregnant silicone belly she kept in her spare tire in her car. I know she wore it at least 3 times to trick me- and it did trick me….

 

March-May 2024

 

Everything I would do for her, all the labor, all the nice things, the money I burned through was always rewarded with punishment and her making up reasons why I was a scumbag for sacrificing and going above and beyond to help her. She was always a victim no matter what.

 

She is still every day multiple times a day: Threatening to kill me, accusing me of infidelity, making abusive demands, hitting me, burning me, insulting me, sucking money from me, and making up these long intricate detailed stories and fabricated detailed lies about my actions and intentions. I cant even function at this point

 

I’m so on edge walking on egg shells for months.

 

Her vehicle gets repossessed from the title loan she took out for her Rot wieller in October 20223.

 

***She gets it out by holding a knife to me And her pregnant belly forcing me to drive all over the city and take out a title loan on my car to get hers back. It was so traumatic for me the remaining friends and family I had left had an intervention on me about her and told me I needed to keep away from her pregnant or not, she got a criminal trespass on my property my folks put on her.***

 

Defaults again and demands I hide her vehicle at my house- which I begrudgingly do. She uses this to try and tell the court I stole her car later on.

 

I spend several trips attempting to and safety move her belongings- she thanks me. Just kidding she starts saying that I robbed her grandma.

 

I try and break up with her AGAIN around this time late march or early April- she goes ballistic and begins contacting my social media acquaintances now. She contacts my Ex-wife, my old classmates, coworkers, and church members seeking dirt on me. She begins telling everyone she can that I raped her and drugged her on a regular basis. She tells this to so many people and spreads it across multiple pages and websites along with my picture and description. I begin getting threatening messages from complete strangers calling me a woman beater.

 

She contacts my last friend group I was able to hold onto and goes into a tirade about how much of a rapist I am.

 

She is threatening me with the most horrible terroristic threats against myself and my circle multiple times a day everyday.

 

She is threatening to hurt the baby everyday.

 

She is telling people and especially the court- she is not pregnant and I am just crazy, just to manipulate evidence for her case.

 

The threats she is sending to the friends I have left are now directed at their children. Every friend I ever had completely cuts me off. She is blackmailing me to stop.

 

 

While I had a protective order on her- Her smear campaign got so bad, she has cost me every one of my friends. She was threatening their children and they stopped talking to me. She contacted my boss and my bosses wife. Weeks went by. I had to contact her to get her to stop, anytime I would make a report, nothing would happen and rinse and repeat. I mean she contacted nearly 30 people while I had the temporary on her alone and nothing was done. The two weeks they were trying to serve her she was spreading a message she had her friend write about me being a predator- to hundreds of people. She blasted my name and picture across dozens of pages to millions of people. Like the damage she caused is so bad I cant even begin to start, every time I start to do something to defend myself shell give me sob story about how her daughters father is pedophile and I’m screwing her over guilt tripping me into dropping things.

 

June-August 2024

 

She gets a friend to write a message about me saying I’m a crazed sexual predator and I drug and rape every women I meet. Saying that I do the manipulative tactics that She has actually been using on me for over a year now. She sends this as a mass text across every social media platform as a message to everyone, she even blasts it along with my picture across a dozen websites as well. She paints me as a predator so badly and humiliates me to the point of being suicidal.

 

After using the baby as a weapon for manipulating me she moved on to complete sabotage and smear campaigning.

 

She signs my phone number and address up for spam calls and letters. I start getting HUNDREDS of spam calls a day. About every 4 minutes for months.

 

She signs my address up for a rape fantasy site

 

she begins throwing anti-freeze laced hot dogs in my yard for my dogs to find

 

I have gone so insane trying to escape this person, I am in pieces

 

I get ANOTHER PROTECTIVE ORDER

 

She intentionally avoids being served for over 2 months so she can continue the ruthless smear campaign.

 

hey finally just title six her and tape the temporary PO to her door.

 

She at this point has contacted EVERYONE. From my cousins to old high school bullies to members of my parents church, EVERYONE.

 

have been kicked out of every club and group I have ever been associated with.

 

She even sends LONG messages along with the one her friend wrote to my new boss and his wife, and gets me fired from a new job.

 

For over two months I have the worst smear campaign you have ever seen tear whats left of my life apart.

 

While a Protective order is in effect! She contacts dozens and dozens of my family and friends.

 

September-December 2024

 

Smear campaign becomes so bad she forces me to drop the Protective Order by late November.

 

Dec 23 goes thru the email on my phone and she finds out I had to turn in my phone to a detective and flips out accusing me of trying to manipulate evidence to get her locked up.

 

She robs my stuff from me and threatens to call the police and tell them I raped her after an afternoon of cleaning her toilets.(she has me over once a week to do her chores and be a maid)

 

she was literally blackmailing me with a smear campaign to do manual labor for her.

 

Christmas eve: She has robbed my wallet from me and stole my Identification card.

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n Christmas eve I was at her place grabbing my punching bag from her gym and to ask her for my Identification card. She tells me she is going to sign me up on every website she can with it and ruin my credit and make me a domestic terrorist with it.

 

I stand behind her car trying to call 911 to get my ID back and she runs me over. She then drives with me on the hood recording and acting she isn't doing anything wrong.

She is doing everything she can to reverse UNO the situation and act like I’m the one harassing her. Her manipulation tactics are very cunning. Her attorney is great at assisting with these tactics.

This person has taken EVERYTHING from me. She has made It clear she wont stop until I’m dead.

She continues to blackmail me with the ID demanding I declare that I sexually assaulted her to the court to get her charges dismissed.

 

Christmas EVE: I asked for Anna C. to please give me my ID she robbed from me the night before, and she dangled it in front of me and said she was giving it away for Nefarious reasons. I stood blocking her car on the phone with 911 while she slowly crept forward forcing me onto the hood. She recorded it while pretending she was in danger from the angle. She then posted this video to her social media and made long ridiculous lies about the situation for weeks continually sabotaging and injuring me to manipulate evidence for her case! While keeping my stolen items.